Is it even legal for a company to call someone five times a day about a dead persons account? I want to reach through the phone and strangle these people, I want to cry whenever I hear it ring. What part of 'she's dead the estate will get to you when it gets to you' do they not understand. It's not my fault the banks are taking forever, I don't deserve to be stalked over this. If it keeps up I'm headed for a nervous breakdown, maybe I should just change my phone number.
The letters of administration finally now I just have to pick them up and then I can start getting things done.


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They're hatching.
Adopt one today! Adopt one today! Adopt one today! Adopt one today!
I've tried to post about this twice already and I couldn't do it. Third times the charm I guess so here goes.

My mother died on December 11. I was the one who found her. I spent the weekend falling to pieces. This was not helped by my aunts little trip to crazy town, what the hell kind of person threatens to hospitalize someone for disagreeing with them and calls it helping? I know she wouldn't have been able to actually do it but it was a realy horrible thing to say. After that
I spent the next two weeks banging my head against a brick wall trying to get the estate settled before Christmas. The fact that there wasn't a will made this impossible, things can't get moving until I get the letters of administration for the estate which will probably be another week. God bureaucracy sucks (as do 1500 dollar probate fees), I want this done.
Someone posted a comment on why she thinks some people twist things to fit their way of thinking. It's a bit naive but valid and probably at least partly true another commenter disagrees in a rude way calling her silly telling her to get off her high horse and just in general  implying she is stupid. When the first person responds badly to the rudeness the other one teams up with someone who apparently thinks snippy insulting things are okay and logical, they call person one   
1. batshit insane
2. trashy
3. belligerent and attention seeking
4. a troll or some species similar.

Nice people aren't they. My responses where as follows:

Disagreement equals troll huh. When did this happen? I must have missed the memo.

So in the world according to you if someone posts a somewhat naive but still valid and at least partially true opinion and another person makes a rude response (and ---------- was rude) if the first person reacts badly they are horrible and deserve to be belittled and insulted. Do you really not see anything wrong with that?

You were rude ---- reacted badly that does not make insulting and belittling her okay. If you had responded to her first comment politely you MIGHT have a leg to stand on but as it is. Ironically you did prove your own point. Next time try doing it without demonstrating.


Ironic that this happened in a conversation about people twisting thing in there heads to feel more comfortable. I'm not sure whether to laugh or cry. Now I'm just waiting for the flames to start. Why can't people stop sucking so much?

edit: And now apparently bystanders aren't allowed to speak up when they see someone being ripped to shreds, guess that's another memo i missed. Also I hate people who say they didn't say things there are a written record of them having said.

edit2: But one of them (the person so in the world was directed at) has apologized and taken down her insulting comments a shame the other is such a bitch but it was nice to be wrong about one of them.




I'm a bit wierded out right now. I got a call from my ex boyfriend today, he was trying to convince me to come work where he works. When I broke up with him in February he spent the entire conversation trying to make it all about me so he could chase after me like a yippy clingy little puppy later. I thought I'd taken care of that but in the three times I've spoken to him since then he's brought the work thing up twice. I've said it wasn't going to happen phrased as strongly as I could without being a complete jerk but I don't think it's sunk in, I excused myself from the conversation as quickly as posible at that point both times. I hope I'm over reacting, he's harmless even if I'm not but this could get realy annoying.
Watched the fourth episode of Fullmetal Alchemist Brotherhood last night. I always thought that bit was a bit rushed in the manga but it was handled realy well here.
So here I am new journal, this is a little intimidating since I actually intend to post in this one. Fair warning I can't spell to save my life.

Currently reading Bitterwood by James Maxey

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